I'm 36, overweight, have cellulite on my legs (so I can't wear shorts even though I burn up now), have stubby wrinkly fingers, ugly feet, thick ankles, huge breasts (makes me look even fatter), a double chin that shows no matter how I hold my head, dark circles under my eyes, a stomach that sticks out even when I suck it in, pale skin, %26amp; fine, stringy hair that is not short yet not long...just hangs there really. I feel like a joke. I feel too unattractive to be human. My fiance is 3 years younger than me %26amp; he's very attractive physically. Lately I am ashamed to go out in public with him: I don't want to embarrass him, yet he says I am beautiful which is not true. I feel like a monster. I feel that any attempt to wear makeup, jewelry, pretty clothes, etc. will just look ridiculous %26amp; draw laughter in public. Any ideas? I feel so ugly it hurts, sometimes I don't even want to live because I look so grotesque. Friday my fiance is counting on me to go out with him, not sure I can.
How can I look more normal/attractive fast?
Don't think like that... You are beautiful you're own way. Why would GOD make anything UGLY? It just doesn't match! But if you are really that desperate, I suggest you cut down in fatty foods and go to the gym often. To get the cellulite off your legs, use NIVEA cellulite cream. The stuff actually works! For wrinkly fingers, get them massaged and avoid doing laundry. For your feet, soak them in hot water with soap and get them rubbed. Cut your toenails too. Hide your thick ankles with matching shoes. Make sure it goes with your outfit. As I've said earlier, exercise everyday to get rid of your larger breasts and double chin. For your eyes, get plenty of rest (about 11 hous of sleep a day) and put cucumbers in your eyes. Also put on a face mask while you are sleeping. Pale skin? Get a tan. Stringy hair? Go to a hairsalon and get it treated. I suggest, DavidSalon? You are not a joke and by the looks of it, you really are beautiful. You're just thinking low on yourself. Why would your fiance like you if you're not beautiful? Please, look in the positive side.
I hope this helped! Good luck with you and your fiance...
How can I look more normal/attractive fast?
Be confident!
How can I look more normal/attractive fast?
Start exercising regularly. It will not only tone up your body, you will feel much better about yourself. You don't have to do anything special; just regular physical activity will be great for you considering that you are not overweight
Invest in a new wardrobe. Shop for clothes that make you look more lively and cheerful. Choose colors that go well with your skin and hair color. Do not forget the accessories.
Buy high-quality lingerie. Do not be too worried if it is too risqu鑼? You will feel great when you wear it.
Spend more time in front of the mirror. Dress up in your favorite outfits and admire your body in front of the mirror. . Notice, in particular, those assets of your body that stand out, whether it be your hair or eyes or rear.
Read inspirational books to develop your self-esteem.
Stay away from people who tease you or try to convince you that a woman's self-esteem is to be determined by her size.
Finally, smile. Smile for being a woman.
How can I look more normal/attractive fast?
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if he didn't find you attractive, he wouldn't be marrying you.
just eat right and try to exercise. even if you don't lose weight, that might help you feel more attractive. i'm sure you're absolutely beautiful... our society tends to press an unrealistic image of what a woman should look like, and it ruins the self esteem of perfectly attractive and beautiful women.
good luck, honey.
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Exercise woman! u will see changes *snap!* just like that! im serious..and since u are exercising your hair will be healthier and grow long and then u can change your style. RUN ALOT!!!
and eat less fatty food *thats the hard part*
BUT I GOT FAITH IN YOUU
u can do it!
YES bee confident
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well getting in shape takes time and very demanding to some people. if you have the money theres always a way, but really if you and your boy friend love each other. then your good to go already. but if you really feel that bad, then start hitting the gym, go for walks, swimming. being active helps us physically and mentally. it's all up too you, but you got all my support. i know you can do this.
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I dont recomend plastic sergery cuz you need a week to recover, so just ask a doctor what he can do about your cellulite, and if your wedding is soon get the plastic sergery dont worry it only hurts a bit, but i am sure that deep down your a beatiful woman even your fiance nos it so just through on a cute outfit and hit the gym!
How can I look more normal/attractive fast?
Why do you think you are ugly???? You have a fiance who thinks you are beautiful....which you probably are. What you need is some self-confidence I mean if you have yourself a man why don't you have any??? Trust me on this your not ugly, and you need to get some self-confidence because no matter how hot you are. A man don't want to be with no woman with no self-esteem!!!!
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I think ur probably not as unattractive as ur putting it; it's probably just the pressure of being next to such a hot guy that makes you feel that way.
Most of your complaints are about being overweight. I don't know if ur really overweight or not but if this is something that's really bothering u, u have to take the first step towards weight loss. An easy step is to replace all your drinks with water...and i'm sure u know the rest abt diet and exercise.
The dark circles may be caused by a bad diet or poor circulation. In the meanwhile, use concealer.
Anyway you are gonna look more ridiculous if you don't dress up, so wear nice clothes and makeup and be happy you have such an awesome fiance. Then totally enjoy Friday w/o worrying abt this stuff.
How can I look more normal/attractive fast?
Loose weight. Simple diet of less then 800 cals a day and working out will help you get back to normal. how'd you get overweight in the first place? Did you now it's a sin to abuse your body and put it in an unhealthy state, that can even include overeating. Your putting yourself at the risk of heart problems. Just like drugs its very unhealthy for you.
Tips%26amp; Motivation:
Don't worry you can lose weight it's 100% possible you can lose all of it. Make sure you work out because that will contribute to getting rid of the cellulite!
Tips:
Throw out all the junk food in your house.
Keep the television off for a week or just whatch at night.
Sleep well so you have energy the next day to work out.
Do
100 crunchs
100 sit ups
100 kicks on each leg
%26amp; atleast a two hour walk a day in total!
Eat a lot of fruits
There based on water so they'll trick your body %26amp; make you feel full.
Drink a lot of water that will keep you energized and feeling hydrated!
Stay off the scale for two weeks and stay away from checking yourself out so you can suprise yourself in two weeks when you get back on the scale.
If you wanna loose it real quick eat about 500 cals a day.
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vegas is rite. he obviously saw something in u! be happy w/ how u r, but if its really bugging u, work out some, get someone to show u how to do ur hair and makup the rite way, and enjoy spending time w/ ur fiance!
How can I look more normal/attractive fast?
holy crap stop beating yourself up. confidence=true beauty. and if your man loves you and wants you dont worry yourself over how ugly you are but look for your good points.
if that doesnt help..excersise,eat right,get a new haircut,pedicure,manicure....if you make yourself FEEL good you will LOOK good.
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1. Join a gym.
2. Go get a free makeover done at one of those makeup counters at the mall, and ask them to recommend products.
3. Get your hair dyed a completely different color, and get a new cut.
4. Go get a manicure and pedicure in a sexy color like red.
5. Confidence is key. I know many plus-sized women that have the most confidence I have seen. It's all about how you see yourself, and that's how others will see you.
How can I look more normal/attractive fast?
Wow--you are so hard on yourself!!! Ok....deep breath. Schedule an appointment for a haircut. It doesn't have to be expensive and you don't even have to get a lot cut. Have them style it. Go to a makeup counter early in the morning(on a weekday) and ask them what they'd recommend for your features-have them put makeup on you. Put your most flattering outfit on and go out with your fiance on Friday. You only live once!! For the future I would def. try some counseling-especially if you're getting married soon. What are you gonna do on your wedding day? You are gonna try to look pretty, right? Don't take any day for granted. Everyday should be like your wedding day--you're worth it! Even the most attractive people get down from time to time. Beauty isn't gonna make you happy. How you value your life and future with your new husband will make you happy. Good luck beautiful!!!
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Get yourself a makeover! It doesn't matter how you look but it sounds like it would make you happy and feel better about yourself. I recommend making a hair appointment at a hip hair studio and they can give you a more flattering look. You could also lose weight, i know its hard but once you do it you feel so healthy and good and it will boost your confidence. Don't push your fiance away because you feel like this! He obviously thinks you are beautiful, you just need to believe him. You sound very self consious, and it may help you a lot to see a therapist. There is a disorder called bdd (body dismorphic disorder) in which you see yourself totally different than everyone else and don't want to leave the house because of it. Remember, you are your own worst critic.
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Every Person no matter the age has something of beauty, some kind of uniqueness to them, that makes them special...I am certain your are no exception...put your emphasis on that while you work on achieving personal goals for yourself...
start by setting short term goals that are attainable; walk three times a week at least for 30 minutes at a time, drink plenty of water and stay away from soda or carbonated drinks that are the leading cause of cellulite..the water will flush out your system (toxins) and will make you feel energized...eat breakfast everyday (this will jump start you in the morning) and at least one serving of yogurt, fruits and vegetables,nuts,grill when you can, it is tasty and will satisfy your need for protein...
for your hair, think about a soft perm (bigger rollers) that will give your hair some life,body and texture, change the color or get some highlights....for your face try mineral based makeup, they are wonderful for your skin and look absolutely natural, it will bring out the beauty of your light completion...
Invest in a girdle to help you with your tummy issue..an make sure that your Bra size is the correct one (85% of women wear the wrong size)...large breasts are an asset in the right bra!...
But the most important advise I can give you is to be Positive, in mind and spirit, appreciate each day and be thankful that you have had an opportunity to be on this Earth, find your purpose...
how you perceive yourself is how the world looks at you, so what if you are not perfect..WHO IS..stop being your own worst enemy...Learn to love yourself and others will follow..you obviously have something wonderful to offer the world when you have a Fiancee that adores you, learn to appreciate that and appreciate yourself..
you can repair the outside all you want but when the inside needs work nothing that you do will ever be enough..so 1st things 1st...be happy with what you have been given and make the best of what you have to offer..I am certain it's quite a bit...
strive to be happy, starting with today...Best of luck
How can I look more normal/attractive fast?
Ah, well. Try eating slower. Eat small portions of food and try eating healthier. Once you start losing weight, try doing excersizes, talk to your doctor first.
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