Saturday, November 28, 2009

I need Help with self-esteem?

I swear I have confidence issues.



but i honestly need help.



This has been bothering me to the point where i get stomach aches, bad ones.



I'm only 13, and I'm becoming paranoid about my looks.



very paranoid.



Whenever i looks at the mirror I just want it to crack and shatter, cause i know that my face belongs on the evolution chart, between mammal and human.



And it's also starting to scare me, cause all my friends, 2 strangers, and some other people have called me cute, or pretty, but thats just total bullshit to me, cause i can't believe them.



I just need your opinion.



ha ha, but isn't it pointless?



Cause I'm Ugly. Period.



Picture One, Headband:



http://i222.photobucket.com/albums/dd214...



Picture two, Hair Up:



http://i222.photobucket.com/albums/dd214...



Picture three: Laying down



http://i222.photobucket.com/albums/dd214...



Just so you know, I'm ready for the most negetive stuff.



so feel free to comment like that.



I need Help with self-esteem?

Don't be ridiculous. I swear, I felt like you for the longest time- my insecurity honestly led me into a depression. I would look into the mirror and think: "How can anyone even stand to talk to me? My nose makes me look like a monster." But I'm feeling much better now, and I've realized that, cheesy as it may sound, everyone is beautiful. I have never met anyone ugly in my life, for there is beauty in everyone. All the time you spend stressing about your looks is wasted time when you could have been living your life. Just enjoy life, and smile, because true beauty comes from happiness- seriously.



P.S. And I forgot to say, I laughed that you thought you were ugly- you're a very pretty girl. All you need is some confidence. Feel free to e-mail me if you ever want to talk. =)



I need Help with self-esteem?

Well, I for one think you're a beautiful girl who just needs to smile more. You look very depressed in those pictures..



I need Help with self-esteem?

honestly



so cute. you're adorable.



Everyone has self-esteem issues. I don't know a single girl without body issues. My best friend is one of the most attractive girls I've ever met, but she has an awful body image, always thinking she's too fat, her skin is bad, etc. No way. She looks amazing and so you do.



Just smile!



I need Help with self-esteem?

I know how you feel.



But honestly, you are soo adorable.



Just keep telling yourself everyday you are beautiful.



and ACCEPT the positive compliments.



Because you are beautiful.



Also I agree with everyone, SMILE MORE!!



It will make you feel great.



This also helped me.



Hang out with your friends more and go places.



I don't know, but it worked for me.



anyways!!! stooop!!!! You are a beautiful girl!!



I need Help with self-esteem?

please dont say ur ugly. becuase ur not. u have pretty shiny hair (put it down!), porcelain skin, and full lips. plus....uve got those enviable almond eyes. all i would do is put on a little mascar or liner to accent those peepers, leave ur hair down, define ur eyebrows a bit, and put on some lip gloss. thats it. and smile!

How can I look more normal/attractive fast?

I'm 36, overweight, have cellulite on my legs (so I can't wear shorts even though I burn up now), have stubby wrinkly fingers, ugly feet, thick ankles, huge breasts (makes me look even fatter), a double chin that shows no matter how I hold my head, dark circles under my eyes, a stomach that sticks out even when I suck it in, pale skin, %26amp; fine, stringy hair that is not short yet not long...just hangs there really. I feel like a joke. I feel too unattractive to be human. My fiance is 3 years younger than me %26amp; he's very attractive physically. Lately I am ashamed to go out in public with him: I don't want to embarrass him, yet he says I am beautiful which is not true. I feel like a monster. I feel that any attempt to wear makeup, jewelry, pretty clothes, etc. will just look ridiculous %26amp; draw laughter in public. Any ideas? I feel so ugly it hurts, sometimes I don't even want to live because I look so grotesque. Friday my fiance is counting on me to go out with him, not sure I can.



How can I look more normal/attractive fast?

Don't think like that... You are beautiful you're own way. Why would GOD make anything UGLY? It just doesn't match! But if you are really that desperate, I suggest you cut down in fatty foods and go to the gym often. To get the cellulite off your legs, use NIVEA cellulite cream. The stuff actually works! For wrinkly fingers, get them massaged and avoid doing laundry. For your feet, soak them in hot water with soap and get them rubbed. Cut your toenails too. Hide your thick ankles with matching shoes. Make sure it goes with your outfit. As I've said earlier, exercise everyday to get rid of your larger breasts and double chin. For your eyes, get plenty of rest (about 11 hous of sleep a day) and put cucumbers in your eyes. Also put on a face mask while you are sleeping. Pale skin? Get a tan. Stringy hair? Go to a hairsalon and get it treated. I suggest, DavidSalon? You are not a joke and by the looks of it, you really are beautiful. You're just thinking low on yourself. Why would your fiance like you if you're not beautiful? Please, look in the positive side.



I hope this helped! Good luck with you and your fiance...



How can I look more normal/attractive fast?

Be confident!



How can I look more normal/attractive fast?

Start exercising regularly. It will not only tone up your body, you will feel much better about yourself. You don't have to do anything special; just regular physical activity will be great for you considering that you are not overweight



Invest in a new wardrobe. Shop for clothes that make you look more lively and cheerful. Choose colors that go well with your skin and hair color. Do not forget the accessories.



Buy high-quality lingerie. Do not be too worried if it is too risqu鑼? You will feel great when you wear it.



Spend more time in front of the mirror. Dress up in your favorite outfits and admire your body in front of the mirror. . Notice, in particular, those assets of your body that stand out, whether it be your hair or eyes or rear.



Read inspirational books to develop your self-esteem.



Stay away from people who tease you or try to convince you that a woman's self-esteem is to be determined by her size.



Finally, smile. Smile for being a woman.



How can I look more normal/attractive fast?

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if he didn't find you attractive, he wouldn't be marrying you.



just eat right and try to exercise. even if you don't lose weight, that might help you feel more attractive. i'm sure you're absolutely beautiful... our society tends to press an unrealistic image of what a woman should look like, and it ruins the self esteem of perfectly attractive and beautiful women.



good luck, honey.



How can I look more normal/attractive fast?

Exercise woman! u will see changes *snap!* just like that! im serious..and since u are exercising your hair will be healthier and grow long and then u can change your style. RUN ALOT!!!



and eat less fatty food *thats the hard part*



BUT I GOT FAITH IN YOUU



u can do it!



YES bee confident



How can I look more normal/attractive fast?

well getting in shape takes time and very demanding to some people. if you have the money theres always a way, but really if you and your boy friend love each other. then your good to go already. but if you really feel that bad, then start hitting the gym, go for walks, swimming. being active helps us physically and mentally. it's all up too you, but you got all my support. i know you can do this.



How can I look more normal/attractive fast?

I dont recomend plastic sergery cuz you need a week to recover, so just ask a doctor what he can do about your cellulite, and if your wedding is soon get the plastic sergery dont worry it only hurts a bit, but i am sure that deep down your a beatiful woman even your fiance nos it so just through on a cute outfit and hit the gym!



How can I look more normal/attractive fast?

Why do you think you are ugly???? You have a fiance who thinks you are beautiful....which you probably are. What you need is some self-confidence I mean if you have yourself a man why don't you have any??? Trust me on this your not ugly, and you need to get some self-confidence because no matter how hot you are. A man don't want to be with no woman with no self-esteem!!!!



How can I look more normal/attractive fast?

I think ur probably not as unattractive as ur putting it; it's probably just the pressure of being next to such a hot guy that makes you feel that way.



Most of your complaints are about being overweight. I don't know if ur really overweight or not but if this is something that's really bothering u, u have to take the first step towards weight loss. An easy step is to replace all your drinks with water...and i'm sure u know the rest abt diet and exercise.



The dark circles may be caused by a bad diet or poor circulation. In the meanwhile, use concealer.



Anyway you are gonna look more ridiculous if you don't dress up, so wear nice clothes and makeup and be happy you have such an awesome fiance. Then totally enjoy Friday w/o worrying abt this stuff.



How can I look more normal/attractive fast?

Loose weight. Simple diet of less then 800 cals a day and working out will help you get back to normal. how'd you get overweight in the first place? Did you now it's a sin to abuse your body and put it in an unhealthy state, that can even include overeating. Your putting yourself at the risk of heart problems. Just like drugs its very unhealthy for you.



Tips%26amp; Motivation:



Don't worry you can lose weight it's 100% possible you can lose all of it. Make sure you work out because that will contribute to getting rid of the cellulite!



Tips:



Throw out all the junk food in your house.



Keep the television off for a week or just whatch at night.



Sleep well so you have energy the next day to work out.



Do



100 crunchs



100 sit ups



100 kicks on each leg



%26amp; atleast a two hour walk a day in total!



Eat a lot of fruits



There based on water so they'll trick your body %26amp; make you feel full.



Drink a lot of water that will keep you energized and feeling hydrated!



Stay off the scale for two weeks and stay away from checking yourself out so you can suprise yourself in two weeks when you get back on the scale.



If you wanna loose it real quick eat about 500 cals a day.



How can I look more normal/attractive fast?

vegas is rite. he obviously saw something in u! be happy w/ how u r, but if its really bugging u, work out some, get someone to show u how to do ur hair and makup the rite way, and enjoy spending time w/ ur fiance!



How can I look more normal/attractive fast?

holy crap stop beating yourself up. confidence=true beauty. and if your man loves you and wants you dont worry yourself over how ugly you are but look for your good points.



if that doesnt help..excersise,eat right,get a new haircut,pedicure,manicure....if you make yourself FEEL good you will LOOK good.



How can I look more normal/attractive fast?

1. Join a gym.



2. Go get a free makeover done at one of those makeup counters at the mall, and ask them to recommend products.



3. Get your hair dyed a completely different color, and get a new cut.



4. Go get a manicure and pedicure in a sexy color like red.



5. Confidence is key. I know many plus-sized women that have the most confidence I have seen. It's all about how you see yourself, and that's how others will see you.



How can I look more normal/attractive fast?

Wow--you are so hard on yourself!!! Ok....deep breath. Schedule an appointment for a haircut. It doesn't have to be expensive and you don't even have to get a lot cut. Have them style it. Go to a makeup counter early in the morning(on a weekday) and ask them what they'd recommend for your features-have them put makeup on you. Put your most flattering outfit on and go out with your fiance on Friday. You only live once!! For the future I would def. try some counseling-especially if you're getting married soon. What are you gonna do on your wedding day? You are gonna try to look pretty, right? Don't take any day for granted. Everyday should be like your wedding day--you're worth it! Even the most attractive people get down from time to time. Beauty isn't gonna make you happy. How you value your life and future with your new husband will make you happy. Good luck beautiful!!!



How can I look more normal/attractive fast?

Get yourself a makeover! It doesn't matter how you look but it sounds like it would make you happy and feel better about yourself. I recommend making a hair appointment at a hip hair studio and they can give you a more flattering look. You could also lose weight, i know its hard but once you do it you feel so healthy and good and it will boost your confidence. Don't push your fiance away because you feel like this! He obviously thinks you are beautiful, you just need to believe him. You sound very self consious, and it may help you a lot to see a therapist. There is a disorder called bdd (body dismorphic disorder) in which you see yourself totally different than everyone else and don't want to leave the house because of it. Remember, you are your own worst critic.



How can I look more normal/attractive fast?

Every Person no matter the age has something of beauty, some kind of uniqueness to them, that makes them special...I am certain your are no exception...put your emphasis on that while you work on achieving personal goals for yourself...



start by setting short term goals that are attainable; walk three times a week at least for 30 minutes at a time, drink plenty of water and stay away from soda or carbonated drinks that are the leading cause of cellulite..the water will flush out your system (toxins) and will make you feel energized...eat breakfast everyday (this will jump start you in the morning) and at least one serving of yogurt, fruits and vegetables,nuts,grill when you can, it is tasty and will satisfy your need for protein...



for your hair, think about a soft perm (bigger rollers) that will give your hair some life,body and texture, change the color or get some highlights....for your face try mineral based makeup, they are wonderful for your skin and look absolutely natural, it will bring out the beauty of your light completion...



Invest in a girdle to help you with your tummy issue..an make sure that your Bra size is the correct one (85% of women wear the wrong size)...large breasts are an asset in the right bra!...



But the most important advise I can give you is to be Positive, in mind and spirit, appreciate each day and be thankful that you have had an opportunity to be on this Earth, find your purpose...



how you perceive yourself is how the world looks at you, so what if you are not perfect..WHO IS..stop being your own worst enemy...Learn to love yourself and others will follow..you obviously have something wonderful to offer the world when you have a Fiancee that adores you, learn to appreciate that and appreciate yourself..



you can repair the outside all you want but when the inside needs work nothing that you do will ever be enough..so 1st things 1st...be happy with what you have been given and make the best of what you have to offer..I am certain it's quite a bit...



strive to be happy, starting with today...Best of luck



How can I look more normal/attractive fast?

Ah, well. Try eating slower. Eat small portions of food and try eating healthier. Once you start losing weight, try doing excersizes, talk to your doctor first.

Dr. Phil's test I am 41 and u?

Below is Dr. Phil's test. (Dr. Phil scored 55; he did this test on Oprah



- she got a 38.) Some folks pay a lot of money to find this stuff out!



Read on, this is very interesting!



Answers are for who you are now --- not who you were in the past Have pen



or pencil and paper ready



This is a real test given by the Human Relations Dept. at many of the



major corporations today. It helps them get better insight concerning



their employees and prospective employees. It's only 10 Simple questions,



so grab a pencil and paper, keeping track of your letter answers to each



question.



Ready?



Begin.



1. When do you feel your best?



a) in the morning



b) during the afternoon and early evening



c) late at night



2. You usually walk...



a) fairly fast, with long steps



b) fairly fast, with little steps



c) less fast head up, looking the world in the face



d) less fast, head down



e) very slowly



3. When talking to people you...



a) stand with your arms folded



b) have your hands clasped



c) have one or both your hands on your hips



d) touch or push the person to whom you are talking



e) play with your ear, touch your chin, or smooth your hair



4. When relaxing, you sit with...



a) your knees bent with your legs neatly side by side



b) your legs crossed



c) you r legs stretched out or straight



d) one leg curled under you



5. When something really amuses you, you react with...



a) big appreciated laugh



b) a laugh, but not a loud one



c) a quiet chuckle



d) a sheepish smile



6 When you go to a party or social gathering you...



a) make a loud entrance so everyone notices you



b) make a quiet entrance, looking around for someone you know



c) make the quietest entrance, trying to stay unnoticed



7. You're working very hard, concentrating hard, and you're



interrupted...



a) welcome the break



b) feel extremely irritated



c) vary between these two extremes



8. Which of the following colors do you like most?



a) Red or orange



b) black



c) yellow or light blue



d) green



e) dark blue or purple



f) white



g) brown or gray



9. When you are in bed at night, in those last few moments before going



to sleep you are...



a) stretched out on your back



b) stretched out face down on your stomach



c) on your side, slightly curled



d) with your head on one arm



e) with your head under the covers



10. You often dream that you are...



a) falling



b) fighting or struggling



c) searching for something or somebody



d) flying or floating



e) you usually have dreamless sleep



f) your dreams are always pleasant



POINTS:



1. (a) 2 (b) 4 (c) 6



2. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 7 (d) 2 (e) 1



3. (a) 4 (b) 2 (c) 5 (d) 7 (e) 6



4. (a) 4 (b) 6 (c) 2 (d) 1



5. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 3 (d) 5 (e) 2



6. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 2



7. (a) 6 (b) 2 (c) 4



8. (a) 6 (b) 7 (c) 5 (d) 4 (e) 3 (f) 2 (g) 1



9. (a) 7 (b) 6 (c) 4 (d) 2 (e) 1



10 (a) 4 (b) 2 (c) 3 (d) 5 (e) 6 (f) 1



Now add up the total number of points.



OVER 60 POINTS: Others see you as someone they should "handle with care."



You're seen as vain, self-centered, and who is extremely dominant. Others



may admire you, wishing they could be more like you, but don't always



trust you, hesitating to become too deeply involved with you.



51 TO 60 POINTS: Others see you as an exciting, highly volatile, rather



impulsive personality; a natural leader, who's quick to make decisions,



though not always the right ones. They see you as bold and adventuresome,



someone who will try anything once; someone who takes chances and enjoys



an adventure. They enjoy being in your company because of the excitement



you radiate.



41 TO 50 POINTS: Others see you as fresh, lively, charming, amusing,



practical, and always interesting; someone who's constantly in the center



of attention, but sufficiently well balanced not to let it go to their



head. They also see you as kind, considerate, and understanding; someone



who'll always cheer them u p and help them out.



31 TO 40 POINTS: Others see you as sensible, cautious, careful %26amp;



practical. They see you as clever, gifted, or talented, but modest. Not



a person who makes friends too quickly or easily, but someone who's



extremely loyal to friends you do make and who expect the same loyalty in



return. Those who really get to know you realize it takes a lot to shake



your trust in your friends, but equally that it takes you a long time to



get over if that trust is ever broken.



21 TO 30 POINTS: Your friends see you as painstaking and fussy. They see



you as very cautious, extremely careful, a slow and steady plodder. It



would really surprise them if you ever did something impulsively or on the



spur of the moment, expecting you to examine everything carefully from



every angle and then, usually decide against it. They think this reaction



is caused partly by your careful nature.



UNDER 21 POINTS: People think you are shy, nervous, and indecisive,



someone who needs looking after, who always wants someone else to make the



decisions %26amp; who doesn't want to get involved with anyone or anything!



They see you as a worrier who always sees problems that don't exist. Some



people think you' re boring. Only those who know you well know that you



aren't.



Dr. Phil's test I am 41 and u?

oh i took this on myspace!! i'm a 44.



Dr. Phil's test I am 41 and u?

49 points 41 TO 50 POINTS: Others see you as fresh, lively, charming, amusing,



practical, and always interesting; someone who's constantly in the center



of attention, but sufficiently well balanced not to let it go to their



head. They also see you as kind, considerate, and understanding; someone



who'll always cheer them u p and help them out.



Dr. Phil's test I am 41 and u?

b,d,e,d,d,c,d,c,c,f = 33 points



going to calculate now



33



Dr. Phil's test I am 41 and u?

I got 50 points- I would say I would be a mix of the 50 ons and the 51. Those seem like me, probably more like the 51 one.



Dr. Phil's test I am 41 and u?

I got 41



Dr. Phil's test I am 41 and u?

How cool is that !! ......................... Didn't take long to do and I got 44 .................... good on you buddy!!



CHEERS



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Dr. Phil's test I am 41 and u?

42 points for me! That was long but I was extremely bored, thanks.



Dr. Phil's test I am 41 and u?

i got 41 too. Us 41's oughta have lunch.



Dr. Phil's test I am 41 and u?

I'm a 37. And it does describe me very well actually.



Dr. Phil's test I am 41 and u?

36



Dr. Phil's test I am 41 and u?

I've taken this test before, but it was a while ago and I don't remember what my score was so I took it again. I agree with you, it is interesting.....I love this kind of stuff.



Oh, btw I scored 47.



Dr. Phil's test I am 41 and u?

Hi, "41" ,...I'm a 50. That was fun, thanks !



Dr. Phil's test I am 41 and u?

hmm...thats very interesting and accurate.....im a 35



Dr. Phil's test I am 41 and u?

I'm 38. That's very accurate. Can't wait to get my hubby to take it. Thanks!

My 17 year old son is an embarrassment & out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

My 17 year old son is out of control. He was never with the popular crowd but when he turned 16 it has been all down hill. When he turned 16 he began referring to himself as the Red Rooster. It is unbelievable and almost indescribable, he does a rooster strut and pecks his nose whenever %26amp; wherever he walks, occasionally singing out "c***-a-doodle-do" in a horrid screech. To top it all off he has his hair spiked with a large red protruding ridge in the center of his head.



I've tried to reason with him and explain what he is doing is ridiculous. I can't even go out in public with him anymore. Mind you, this has been going on non-stop for over a year. All he can say for himself is "It shows everyone I can work with my limited ability" - I don't even know what that means.



What would you do if your child started behaving like a human rooster? Would you throw him out of your house?



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

Heck no. I could make money with that. Send him along.



My neighbor had a daughter like that, they would have booted her out but they needed the eggs.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

Come again...?



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

booth camp



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

He needs psychiatric help. Get him help before resorting to throwing him out.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

get him Psychiatric help ASAP!



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

no i would throw him into drug rehab. quick.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

No, get him a gig as a mascot for a fast food chain. That way, he'll be out of your hair while he's at work, he'll get to feed his obsession and earn some money!



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

Put him in the chicken coop and call him Foghorn Leghorn....



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

This is nothing. Be glad he isn't a druggie or alcoholic. Youth has many stages, and you just have to allow them to pass. Maybe you're not giving him as much attention as he needs.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

Get him tested for drugs, first. That's what it sounds a lot like.



Don't throw him out untill you've done that. If it's negative, throw him out. Positive- put him in rehab.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

Oh my, this story is wild! Are you for real? if so, maybe you should take him for a psychiatric evaluation. Or perhaps just counseling. This is really odd behaviour!



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

personally, and its my own belief, so dont go calling child services here, but the way i grew up, if i had even dared to act like that, my mom would have laid into my buttocks with a belt.



i believe a big problem in the world today is that children are not disciplined properly.



if you get it right when they're young, this kind of thing will never happen....



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

You should NEVER, under ANY circumstance, abandon your child. Keep in mind that he won't be 17 forever. It's unlikely that he will still act like a human rooster when he's 40. But he will always be your son.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

You can't toss him out, he is your responsibility until he's 18. You should seek help for him- he sounds lonely. Maybe get him into a local community theater.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

I'd start offering him chicken feed for breakfast if he is going to act like that!



Honestly though, I wouldnt chuck him out. Is it harming anyone? I'd be more interested in finding out what the "limited ability" comment is about. It sounds like he may have a confidence issue and this is his way of giving himself confidence.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

I was out of controll as a teen. My mom contacted a judge who kindly showed me the inside of a Texas Prison. He then made me stay a month in a Texas youth prison. I have not even raised my voice since.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

He is just trying to get a rise out of you and everyone else. Rebelling. Love your child no matter what, let him know you love he. Set boundries make him get a job or hobby etc.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

I hope to Christ that you are joking, but if not...



I think you need to contact a serious psychologist that knows how to deal with people who are completely off their rockers. This kid needs to be carted off to a nut hut %26amp; straightened out before he ruins his whole freaking life. Ask your family doctor or your pastor for a recommendation.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

Please tell me that you really are kidding and that you're not anyone's parent. As a parent, its your job to teach that everyone has a right to be different, and shouldn't be judged. Your attitude does nothing but create low self esteem, and probably only increases your son's desire to act out. You're not worried about HIM standing out, you're worried about what people will think of you. Shameful.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

personally i'd whoop his *** for the "rod of correction". thats not really legal to throw him out unless he's 18.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

he needs psychotheraphy, don't throw him like a garbage.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

He needs the help of a psychiatrist. With luv and affection you can increase his confidence.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

Maybe speaking to a youth advisors can put him back on track.....good luck



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

yo fool. he b hip and u bit a HaTeR. jus cause he aint like yo borin asss u b thrown him 2 da wolves. Get a grip pops. U aint no angel fool. U b hatein ur son and tryin 2 use it as an excuse 2 throw his asss out. Go ahead and throw the red rooster out and then he'll become jus like yo asss and wind up the HaTeR of YOU!!!!!!!



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

A parents love is supposed to be unconditional. He may have other problems that need to be addressed. Try family counseling. Sounds like he is looking for attention. Throwing him out is not going to solve anything and will only show him that you do not care.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

If your child seriously believes he's a rooster, you should probably seek medical advice. Remember that he's a teenager and teenagers do strange things. Sounds to me like he's TRYING to be weird to freak people out. A lot of people get off on that. Could be looking for some attention or maybe the kid's on drugs. Either way I don't think throwing him out is the solution. You had this child, he is your responsibility. Throwing him out makes him the rest of societys problem and the rest of society won't love him as his family does. He's better off at home. Talk to him and lay down the law. Tell him how he is expected to behave while living in your home.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

that's the best one i've heard all day!



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

Try forgiveness and love. The more you make an issue out of his behavior the more he will get into it. All teenagers do weird things, but non of them are excuses for expulsion from the household---that will cure nothing, but will drive him deeper into the pit that he has jumped into. Try prayer and ask for God's help. God pulled me out of a very deep and a very dark pit several years ago---if I told you the kind of a person that I used to be before being saved, it would make your son appear as a saint. You can do nothing on your own, so stop trying. Hand it over to Jesus, for he can do all things that we cannot do. God bless you and your son. Jesus loves both of you.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

That's not normal. That's not even normal teenage rebellion. I'm seriously thinking this is a joke. If it is, kudos, it's the weirdest story I've seen all day. If not...I would say you need him psychiatrically evaluated.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

your son has some spirit on him, that is amazing. try this,



when you go places with him, carry some feed. (for roosters) call him by his name (red rooster) as much as it bothers you, and throw some feed on the ground, and beckon him to come to you (kind of like a dog). He will see that two can play at that game.



he thinks he is in control, but the farmer is in control of the animal, he won't like that at all. He may get upset, tell him that you are just trying to encourage him. You thought that's what he wanted.



even better, start putting him rooster feed in a little bowl for meals, every meal. tell him that if he wants to be an animal, do it all the way.



Why go half way about anything. don't do it sarcastically, act as if he really is a rooster.



only make enough food for you and your husband/wife, just enough so your son knows that you are serious.



he may really have a problem.



don't threaten to kick him out. Turn his room into a barn if you really wants to be a rooster.



my mom played like that and i thought twice before i did anything.



it sounds awful or mean but he will learn that you love him the same always,



take pictures of him posing like a rooster, or catch him on video and start putting the pictures up for display in your home. (you can always take them down later) he will see how silly he looks, and will most likely stop.



My 17 year old son is an embarrassment %26amp; out of control. Should I throw him out of the house?

Have you ever thought that your son MAY be doing this to get your attention or the attention of his peers? It may be due to the fact he believes that he does have a diminished intellect or he may be just trying to see how far he can push you. Put your foot down, if needed in the middle of his butt. He needs to realize that regardless of his so-called need to express himself that while he is in your house he WILL follow your rules. 7 or 17 no child is too old for a good old fashioned spanking if need be. You are the father (or mother) and it is your responsibility to get this child ready for society.

Why is DHT so difficult to defeat when it comes to Male Pattern Baldness? Shouldn't there be a

I have done some reading on the subject, and as a very early sufferer of the adverse effects DHT has on the male scalp and hair production, I was wondering why no one has cured it yet. What is it about DHT that makes it so difficult to control? We have conquered polio and smallpox, and new treatments are being discovered every day for the host of maladies that we as the human race must face. But Male Pattern Baldness, one of the most humiliating, albeit not life-threatening problems, is still around, and perhaps more common (especially among young men) then ever. Why has there been so little progress? Are there any new treatments coming out with REAL promise, and not just a placebo effect?



Why is DHT so difficult to defeat when it comes to Male Pattern Baldness? Shouldn't there be a cure soon?

There are several forms of hair loss. If it is male pattern baldness (Androgenetic alopecia) then the hair loss cannot be fully cured in most cases, but just frozen for some time with the treatments availiable on market today. ( I'm hoping the new hair cloning technology will be availiable in the nearest future, because then the amount of donor hair will not be an issue anymore)



1) Hair transplant (FUE technology) creates really natural hairline, no scars, the best way to go if you have enough donor hair and money of course.



2. Propecia (Finasteride) and Minoxidil are the only ones approved by FDA and proven to work in most men so far.



Generic Propecia (finasteride) is also ok. I use it with same results, and unfortunately same side efefcts(a bit dry feeling in the scalp) as brand propecia. Have tried lots of herbal crap before it and laser combs, so far the only thing that prevents my hairloss, not much regrowth, but has stopped my hairloss completely.



I buy from this pharmacy for the last 2 years - http://www.1rx.biz/generic_propecia.html . It is under $1 per pill for 1mg propecia.



also see



http://www.propecia.com



http://www.rogaine.com



But before you consider to start propecia you must really study about the side effects. It can mess your hormones real bad if you are not lucky, so you must choose, hair or these side effects. Quite a big perecent have these side effects, more than Merck - the company that holds



Propecia trademark is saying. see the link for side effects stories www.propeciahelp.com



Why is DHT so difficult to defeat when it comes to Male Pattern Baldness? Shouldn't there be a cure soon?

Ya, it seems so strange that they can put a man on the moon, but they can't find a way to keep my hair on my head! Wigs are starting look real good these days...who cares what people think....my head is COLD!!! D'n'D



Why is DHT so difficult to defeat when it comes to Male Pattern Baldness? Shouldn't there be a cure soon?

I bet if it affected women they would have sorted it out by now.



Nobody seems interested in sorting out mens problems.



Why is DHT so difficult to defeat when it comes to Male Pattern Baldness? Shouldn't there be a cure soon?

There are some supplements advertised that stop this. Your male body produces testosterone naturally. When your body uses this hormone it converts it into a by product called Di-Hydro(????)-testosterone (some strange name) or DHT. This is why one of the side effects of steroid use while using them is baldness. I have seen some GNC type stores offer supplements that will keep this conversion from happening. They are usually designed to counter act the side effects of anabolic steroid use. Please note that they are deemed safe (at least by their manufacturers) and are not anabolic in nature.



Why is DHT so difficult to defeat when it comes to Male Pattern Baldness? Shouldn't there be a cure soon?

there is a near solution though. finasteride, minoxidil and nizoral. i have been taking this power 3 combo for 5 years and i got more hair than when i started. (no i don't have a baldspot anymore).

Will you think differently about people and the world 10 minutes later, after reading this?

I think reading this in 5-10 minutes would be better than listening to the news for a lifteime.Plz don't think I'm a very old person.Just 18.A university student studying English who just cannot sit back and hope.This article has two parts: 1.Cultural and general info and music 2.political info.If you wanna get enlightened and shocked read it from top to bottom.



Hi.I'm Iranian and I live in Iran.When I chat with people from other countries, I understand that they have totally wrong ideas about Iran.I just wrote this article to correct you.



The first thing they accuse our government of, is that they don't let you be free.Actually, Iranians would be some of the most liberal people in the world (liberal meaning not obeying laws that they don't like).Thousands of millions of strict rules in other countries, don't even exist in Iran.Also, you should understand that what may seem so normal to you, may be a nightmare for us and vise versa.That's why you don't understand a few of Iran's laws.In Iran every single house has a sattelite. Sattelite channels had a serious influence on people, they wear very fashionable clothes.Maybe it's a kind of immitation, but still it's got an unique Iranian style.You'll see lots of beauty qeens on the streets that are just like models advertising fashionable clothes! Most part of their hair is out and they wear a lot of make up, also wearing scarves is a part of our culture.Iran is one of the super-consumers of cosmics (which is bad for our economy)! People do whatever they wish to and some of the things they do, don't fit our culture at all, however it's normal in Iran.You'll be surprised seeing the difference between what you imagined before and how the real Iran is! It's wonderful.Everything's so great if you don't take unemployment, inflation and air pollution into account which I guess are common problems in many other countries. Many things have changed so far.I can't even compare Iran with 5 years ago, let alone comparing it with 30 years ago!!!! After all, nearly 65-70% of Iran's population is considered the new generation (The youth) and they've transformed everything.



Some people think women don't have any rights in Iran! Women are overtaking Iran. They're treated very well.They're the winners in most cases: They get into the best universities cos they're so clever.They get the best jobs cos they can do jobs much better than men.They've got rights that have made it difficult for men to marry them, because husbands buy them expensive things and treat them very well, otherwise women will have the right to ask them a great amount of money according to the law which most husbands cannot afford, so they'll be imprisoned.The only thing that women are not allowed to do in Iran is getting into public football stadiums and that's just because in Iran such places are usually full of cheeky guys who would cheek girls.They do anything from taking part in rallies to singing DJ / pop songs.Anything! I've put a sample here.I feel foolish for sitting here explaining ordinary things to you.



Another funny thing: Your footage about stoning the women who have committed adultery.Have you ever asked yourselves they relate to how many years ago?Just for your information, those are from Afghanistan which was ruled by those freaks (Taliban).When you think of such things, try to think of the racism in your country too.I find it difficult to make you understand that Iran, Iraq and Afghanistan are SEPERATE COUNTRIES! and that 60% of Iranians are Persian and 30% are Turkish! I find it even more difficult to make you understand that Iran is a normal country like any other countries in the world.There's nothing mysterious about it!(The media are very good at making scary titles: BEHIND THE CLOSED DOORS!!! IRAN UNDERCOVER!!! This would be enough to scare people away! Iranians are much more educated, intelligent and open-minded than what you think!!! I'm sure you don't know that there are lots and lots of Iranian geniouses and scientists that are all under 25.You don't hear about their discoveries and inventions on TV. For instance this 17 year old boy has invented 72 amazing inventions and there are many many KIDS like that.You don't know that Iranian students and sportsmen win gold and silver medals in different compotitions in the world all the time such as robotics, biology, maths, physics, sports, anything! Why don't the media talk about them? They just can't summerise everything in one word "nuclear", although we're proud of it cos having nuclear energy means a country is developed.Did you know that the countries having the highest number of scientists in the world are in this order? 1-India 2-Korea 3-Iran



A few months ago Iran uncovered the most effective anti-H.I.V medicine and it was signing treaties with other countries to export it.I digged the news on the internet, but there was no single sign of that.What did I find instead? "President Bush CLAIMS that bomb parts are imported from Iran into Iraq!"(The same old story!) The media are injustice.They put CLAIMS on the headlines, but they never talk about facts! Some interesting facts:



Iran is the pionier in medicine and genetics and Iranian surgens have found lots of new methods for treating spinal defects and many other diseases (mainly the treatment for different types of cancer) and the best brain and heart surgens are Iranian surgens.The head of Mars Mission in NASA is Iranian.One of the best designers of sports cars working in Germany is Iranian.Some of the best 3D animators are Iranian.Iran is one of the best countries in counter-engineering.Holds the second place in building dams and holds records in loads of other things! It's one of the top countries in these fields: bio-technology and nono-technology.The 4th highest tower in the world (Milad tower) is in Tehran (which you can visit in the second link).51 top universities out of the 100 top universities in the Mid-East are in Iran and they're among some of the top universities of the world as well.The champion weight-lifter is Iranian.The woman, and a song by one of the pop singers who/which won the nobel peace prize are Iranians and lots of Iranians win nobel prizes specially in medicine field. And as you all know, Iranian girls are famous for being terrific.Persian rug and Persian literature, many Persian poets and scientists that are so famous.Persian culture is now westernised and only a little has survived! According to statistics Tehran is the cheapest capital city in the world for foriegners of course not for us! (Cos our rate is different: one Dollar =about 950 Tomans!) There are many other things.How many pages would you need to describe a country?And also, Iran is an independant country unlike its neighbouring countries.It has nearly all the developed industries and technologies and doesn't need other countries to survive! The list is endless.



Some charactristics of Iranians would be: Proud, greedy, hard-working for themselve, lazy in doing their duty well!, intelligent, ambitious, not realistic, not so religious (sadly majority of the young generation is not), not punctual, impatient, well-dressed, formal, well-educated, warm and friendly and hospitable.



Some people think, Iran's a desert! lol Iran is a modern country with breathtakingly beautiful nature and lots of historic places to visit.Please take a look at the following links to see if Iran looks like what you think or not! (You didn't expect it to be like that.Right?)



This is a photo of Tehran: http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/co... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tehran



If you like you can visit these too, hundreds of pretty photos from the cities and nature:



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Hills...



http://www.pbase.com/k_amj/throughout_ir...



http://www.pbase.com/k_amj/throughout_ir...



http://www.pbase.com/k_amj/throughout_ir...



http://www.bigsoccer.com:80/forum/showth...



http://www.bigsoccer.com/forum/showthrea...



http://www.bigsoccer.com/forum/showthrea...



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iran



Some people think music is forbidden in Iran.Did you know that Iranian pop music was chose as the best pop music in France in 2005? I guess not.All Iranian songs are current pop /Club-Dance/Trance/ DJ music.I send them to my American and Canadian chat friends and they all say they're some of the best songs they've ever heard.



Here's a sample of the latest hits.(You didn't expect them to be so catchy.Right?) I believe in "Express yourself through music and that music is a universal language".



You can just right click on the links below and choose "Save Target As" to download them.They're some of the best songs you've ever heard.It's nothing like what you expect! You can read the full translation of the songs here: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...



1.(You know this: 2007) http://download.bia2music.com/Music/Iran...



2.(Hold my hand: 2007) http://www.sarzaminmp3.com/Sarzaminmusic...



3.(The wetness of your eyes: 2006) http://download.bia2music.com/Music/Iran...



4.(I just want you: 2003) http://download.bia2music.com/Music/Iran...



5.(The rain: 2007) http://download.bia2music.com/Music/Iran...



6.(The window: 2005) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...



7.(Keep me in your memory: 2005) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...



8.(Farangis "A female name" 2007) http://download.bia2music.com/Music/Iran...



9.(The distance: 2007)



http://www.sarzaminsong.com/Sarzaminmusi...



10.(Sunrise: 2007)



http://www.sarzaminsong.com/Sarzaminmusi...



11.(Stop world:2006) http://www.sarzaminmusic.com/Sarzaminmus...



12.(You can't: 2007)



http://www.sarzaminmp3.com/Sarzaminmusic...



13.(The wind's kiss: 2005) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...



14.(Reveal your visage: 2004) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...



15.Chi mishod (What would have happened if : 2007)



http://www.sarzaminmp3.com/Sarzaminmusic...



16.(It's beautiful: 2007) http://www.sarzaminmp3.com/Sarzaminmusic...



And so on and on!



It's now 2007 and people still think we are uneducated people living in deserts, riding camels and carrying around guns!!!!



See how the media are fooling people? None of the things you hear on the media about Iran are true.



Let's clarify some political issues as well:



Some of the Americans I chatted with, said in the U.S it's said that president Ahmadinejad hates the U.S and Israel and wants to nuke them!! The media are good at putting comments.It's easy to show a video or an image of our president or leader on the T.V screen or on the internet and say he says this, he says that.....I really don't get the point why our politicians defame themselves by talking about things that have got nothing to do with us.For example does verbal defence of Palestinians cause them to have a better life?The thing is that they occasionally make some statements that the media would misuse it agaisnt Iran.For example they pick up some specific phrases of a long speech (without reffering to the main points and reasons for that speech) and put so many bad comments on that.No sane person would take it for granted.



First of all, Iranians don't hate anyone.If our government complains about some injustice going on in the world, it's not bad.Is it? (Although what we want them is to not to get us into trouble by talking about things that are none of our concern.) We hate neither Jews nor Americans.I love Americans otherwise why would I talk to them?! How would our guys dream of America, be like them as much as possible and hate it at the same time?! Although ordinary Iranians don't care much about world affairs, I've got to say that for us Israel is not equal with Jews! Israel is a govt.Jews are faithful people! A few of them live here in our neighbourhood and they live just like the rest of Iranians.No difference.And two of Iran's parliment members are Jews. Who says we want to force others to convert to Islam?Have you ever found a Muslem knocking at your door asking you to do so?It's so funny the way you imagine things and make yourselves believe in your own immaginations! Christians and Jews are both God believers and respectful to us.I wonder why the media like putting words in our mouth and raising hatred.In Iran, religion would be the least important thing. It means that where you come from and what your religion is, are not important to us at all.On the contrary, meeting different people would be so interesting for us! I love the Japanese who come here!



I wonder Iran is a threat to whom. Which logical rule admits that it's logical to say a country is guilty because we THINK / PREDICT that she's going to do something wrong?!!!! And they repeat the same "nuclear" tosh over and over and brain wash people! News headlines: "We won't allow Iran to gain nuclear weapons"!!! Has Iran ever attacked any countries?No.Has it developed any nukes?No!That's what nuclear agency says.Only Iran's oppositions are pulling Iran's leg and what they say is of no credit.It's just based on political conflicts.What we're doing is legal.What they ask us to do (ignoring our international rights) is illegal and nonsense.Iran is a peaceful country.Why? It's the regional super-power and if she wanted, she could easily invade the countries in our neibourhood just like what Seddam did to our country, but as you see Iran has peaceful relationships with all of them.It could be a good example to some countries that just follow their interests.What is interesting is that the countries which accuse Iran of different things have been, and are still accused of the same things!!! This is a modern and innovative form of philosophy and logic!



Some people say he said: Israel should be wiped off the map! But have they told you the rest of his speech and that why he's said this at all?You know that it's a passive sentence.He's never said that IRAN wants to wipe Israel off the map! He wasn't talking about destroying Israel.He was talking about relocating Israel, so that they could live seperate from Palestinians and they could both live in peace.They've only told you this phrase not the whole thing and it's mistranslated intentionally.Iran's always defended itself, but it's not an offensive country.



Some say he's said: Holocaust is a myth! again this is a single phrase from among a long speech and there are totally logical reasons for saying so.If 6000000 Jews were killed, that's so terrible, but those 300000 Shiite Moslems killed by Saddam aren't important at all! Over 650000 Iraqi people are killed and it's not important! When Fox News simply says: America and Israel are capable of destroying and killing all Iran's 69000000 population within two weeks, it's OK and no one says they're threatening other countries to nuke them (I saw this with my own eyes on the Fox News website) Millions of people killed in Afghanistan, Hiroshima %26amp; Nakazaki and vietnam war are not considered human beings at all! Now I think you'd get the point why he's IRONICALLY said it's a mith.Moreover, don't you believe in freedom of speech/mind?



Obviousely, some countries are using Iran as a victim to put the blame (their own faults) on Iran.And which country is better than Iran to be a victim?They've made the whole world believe that Iran isn't a peaceful country and represent false image of Iranians by making insulting movies like "300" . Anyone saying that it was not for political reasons is wrong.



I know Americans don't like these either, but what can they do?They're not responsible for controlling what the media say.I hope someday the media would end all this instead of playing a negative role in the world.



This part is just for Americans who would still argue over unimportant things: Those of you who say why Iran says "Death to America": 1.America means the U.S govt not the people 2.The new generation don't say such things and if some of them occasionally march in the streets that's because some of the stupid guys enjoy making noise and they mainly go out there to meet their girlfreids/boyfriends! Strange.Isn't it? 3.Such mottos are not just said in Iran and as you know whatever you hear is a response to the U.S govt's terrible actions which has made life for many people hell (You wouldn't deny that attacking countries is a mistake.right?) 5.The U.S gov't helped Seddam to attack Iran and I hope you know which country gave Iraq biological weapons which killed lots of Iranians 6.America hit an Iranian airplane over the Persian Gulf and killed 200 passengers for no reason 7.It's always botherng Iran by sanctions, displaying false image of Iran and Iranians, scares tourists away from Iran and is always harmful to our economy, development and credit 8.It's always despised the Iranians who travel to the U.S at their arrival (even ordinary ones, university students, sportsmen, scientists etc)



To those who are upset with American hostages taken for 444 days: 1.Firstly, It's related to so many years ago and almost a part of history and don't forget that when there's a revolution, there'd be cheos and people may do things that they should not, moreover they're all alive and healthy.Aren't they? 2.The U.S has arrested Iranian diplomats in Iraq and keeps denying that they're diplomats.Now you decide who has the right to be upset with whom.It's exceeded the level of tit for tat.



Isn't it better for both countries to forget about the past conflicts and to have peaceful relations?The two govts are like 10 year old children playing a game by harsh rhetoric.They don't care about hurting people's feeling.They just try to show that the people are enemies of each other to achieve their own goals. We as the people of these countries MUST NOT have any conflics.You know something?All govts are hateful.I just said the above things because it sounds unfair when some Americans talk about 444 hostage taking and I keep being silent.I hope you agree on this one! Now, what do you think?I can't wait to see both nations in peace.It'd be marvelous! Would this happen in less than 2 years?You know what I mean!



Remember that: The sea is deeper.You don't always have to see the surface of it.



Plz whenever you have time, find and read an article about "ethnocentrism".Knowing the meaning of this term is not enough.After reading about it, you'll feel a noticable positive change in your attitude towards different people! Guaranteed!



Thanks for your time.



Will you think differently about people and the world 10 minutes later, after reading this?

I must admit this was pretty long, but you kept me intrigued. I am soon turning 17 and am very interested in world relations and politics. At first, I was scared to believe what you were saying. I don't like to be suckered in to what people say, particularly such things as the media. However, as I kept reading, you truly sounded genuine.



I've always wondered what a country's citizens thought of another country's citizens. I despise the fact that we base our feelings of another country on the people running it. I don't know you. You don't know me. I have no right to hate you until you do something to me personally.



I do believe that the media here in the U.S. distort what people say, whether they be celebrities or political leaders. I don't think it's right and I don't think it's fair. All Americans aren't stupid. All teenagers like myself aren't stupid. We non-ignorant Americans can see that there is something wrong with the way foreign relations and domesic issues are handled. I feel sorry for us.



It's good to know Iran is much better than what we are told everyday. I feel rather inferior knowing there's a kid who's created 72 inventions. :-) However, it's good to know. I'm glad to hear about Iran from an Iranian. Maybe I'll come visit...



Will you think differently about people and the world 10 minutes later, after reading this?

Actually i changed my mind after reading this . thanks Report It



Will you think differently about people and the world 10 minutes later, after reading this?

The media wants to see Tom Cruise Jumping on Oprahs couch and forgetts about important news. People can talk smack as much as they want about Iran. Tell yourself this, I love Iran, and i know the real truth about Iran, so these comments dont bother the way i fell about it. Well thanks and see ya! Report It



Will you think differently about people and the world 10 minutes later, after reading this?

I don't believe what you say. There's no freedom in Iran. Even you website says it: Human rights violations include governmental impunity, restricted freedom of speech, gender inequality, treatment of homosexuals, execution of minors, and in some cases torture. Report It



Will you think differently about people and the world 10 minutes later, after reading this?

i agree, i'm pretty sure that the US is just rattling its saber at Iran and is trying to get the american people behind it. I'm sure Iran has a lot to offer to the world. if everybody and their religion would just let everybody else live, the world would have a lot more progress, technologically and socially.



Will you think differently about people and the world 10 minutes later, after reading this?

I agree. Media propoganda is used to sway veiwers opinions into believing something so negative about another culture. I believe that most media coverage is a ploy to gain support for war and issues abroad.



Marginilization is a huge issue both here and in other countries and the bottom line is, we do it to eachother. We need more diplomats and people interested in foreign relations to interact with one another and create a better understanding of one another. We're really not that different from eachother. Both with common struggles, common issues, a common set of things that make you happy/sad/etc but we speak a different language (nationally, not necessarily you and me). The way I see it, we're not that different at all....Just misunderstood.



Will you think differently about people and the world 10 minutes later, after reading this?

I hope to read the entire diatribe later, but for now, pieces of it make sense to me. Yes, all governments are hateful, and yes, peace would be a wonderful thing. I don't think many Americans believe that Iranians are bad people. Most of us realize that it's just the government that is evil. We don't WANT to go to war with Iran. But that doesn't mean that it won't happen.



Forgetting about past conflicts is ok if there's a new way of acting. The concern that most Americans have is that the new government in Iran is the same as the old government in Iran, and these people are dangerous. If Iran had a different government, I think Americans would completely forget about the hostages in 1980. It is a long time ago. But we are also concerned that the same people run the government as took the hostages back then, so we don't trust them.



We are at peace with Japan, yet the Japanese once killed thousands of Americans. We are at peace with Germany despite a horrible history. We SHOULD be at peace with Iran, but the Iranian government continues the same threats they did 25 years ago. It is not the U.S. who is most to blame for the bad relations.



Will you think differently about people and the world 10 minutes later, after reading this?

I learned about ethnocentrism in anthropology. It has helped me adapt easily while traveling and when experiencing cultures different than my own. The beauty in the world is found in all of the unique aspects of culture and society, not in assimilation.



Admittedly, I skimmed this for now, because I am in a hurry, but I copied and pasted it to my word processor to read later because I am very interested to hear your point of view. Thank you for sharing.



Will you think differently about people and the world 10 minutes later, after reading this?

Thank you for posting this. Once again it seems the media (and government) has mislead us. When I got to thinking about that article I realized that all the bad things I had heard was about Afghanistan and Iraq. I have never heard anything about Iran but yet I had a bad image of it. In fact, I have only heard great words from your president and I really respect the man. Good luck to you!



Will you think differently about people and the world 10 minutes later, after reading this?

Thank you. I was happy to read the thoughts and perspective, of an Iranian. It gives me a lot to think about.



Will you think differently about people and the world 10 minutes later, after reading this?

One problem with American views on Iran is that Americans equate a country's figurehead to the people in the country. I would NEVER want someone outside of the U.S. to presume that all Americans are like George W. Bush. Less than 30% of Americans think he is doing a good job as president. While I may have an negative opinion, as I think most Americans do, of the President of Iran, I would never presume that all people in Iran have the same beliefs as the President.



Having the mindset that a country's civilians are only an extension of their leaders is what allows mankind to lash out at one another without any thought as to what will happen to the people, infrastructure and culture of a country. It is horrible that in the U.S. we only hear on the news about the number of U.S. soldiers who die in Iraq, but no one brings up the fact that 300,000 Iraqis (many civilians) have died in the war between the U.S. and Iraq.



I really wish that America would build a diplomatic relationship with Iran. I hear there is a wonderful generation of young people who are much more progressive and I fully believe we should embrace these young people and work with them to create peaceful solutions to the problems between the U.S. and Iran.



Will you think differently about people and the world 10 minutes later, after reading this?

well first of all your article was very insightful i did not know half the thing you talked about Iran, I think what makes people have misconceptions about Iran or other countries like Eritrea Is because what the media feeds the out side world, I can say most things that happen around go unknown. Iran is a very resource full country, that is why sadam wanted a piece of the pie and know i think the Americans have interest, lets just hope that they don't work on Iran just like how they worked Iraq. Its a crazy worlds all about power and money



Will you think differently about people and the world 10 minutes later, after reading this?

It's not all about gov. The CIA does ivestigations along side other countries and they probably find extremist. They ask the gov. to be responsibile for these such ppl and arrest or stop the criminals. these criminals are the ones that the media "feed on" they portray them to be what all of one counntry believes. Most Americans any way know this. Iran had a revolution,yes and most change seems to be for the better. Even Bush and his Brittish %26amp; Canadian allies know this! Iran is also recognized as a developed country and does do international research %26amp; development with many nations for the beterment of human-kind. Most easterners do not pay any attention to religion as the US was founded on religious principals. They just no longer think Jews or Christians nor any other religion is important to society and they have become opinioniated of religion! Many Americans have never been to a church Cynagouge or mosque. Me, for instance, as a kid I thought some Europeans wore the scarf or Turbin because they were from countrys that had sand storms and these things protected them.Religion has never been a part of the international community science %26amp; medicine have. By reading all of your opinions, I just think you are a world citizen,but you are defending yourself from a few who tend to "stereotype"



Will you think differently about people and the world 10 minutes later, after reading this?

The world media is owned by FOR PROFIT corporations. So you have to ask, what sells better, love and peace or death and war. It's the human condition exploited to the very best of the world economy. The independent thinker is being removed from all societies, thats how the media has gained so much influence.



Will you think differently about people and the world 10 minutes later, after reading this?

Ah



The truth at last!



Of course some Americans will not believe you, not even some of what you have revealed. But one must remember that Americans on the whole, are very easily led and gullible.



Many of us however, are aware of Iran"s contributions to the region - to the world.



I hope you keep posting, if only to reinforce the fact that most of Iran is now comprised of young, bright, intelligent people who hate no one.



Keep in mind also that not everyone in this country wants war with your country,



Those in the know also recognize the fact that the United States hates to be last. Unfortunately we want to be the first at everything. It started with Sputnik. Then the atom bomb. Then USING the atom bomb. Nothing much has changed. I am a citizen of and was born in the United States. But I have learned - despite that I am younger than Bush's daughters - that we don't exactly appreciate either that the most intelligent and brightest and educated minds are not birthed in the United States. There is much jealousy you see,



Enough said..



Will you think differently about people and the world 10 minutes later, after reading this?

Peddle your propaganda else where. And a hint... keep it brief, putting people to sleep shouldn't be your goal.

Does Yahoo Answers make you mad sometimes?

Violations on Yahoo Answers make me what to pull my hair out!!!



What do you think? There are power in numbers!!!



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This is posted on the front page of yahoo answers today, why don't you go there and post your comments on this?



Maybe if we all join together and complain, maybe we閳ユ獟l get some action!!!



This is what I posted the other day, maybe it will help you!



Have you been reported to the Yahoo Administration Staff for no good reason? I have!!! People reporting you 閳ユ競ecause they can and should閳?because they don閳ユ獩 like your answers is just plain wrong!!! She did wrong, I閳ユ獡 telling!!! I閳ユ獟l get him or her into trouble, hahahaha! I閳ユ獡 a customer, damn it, of yahoo answers, not my fault they don閳ユ獩 charge us to use it. Yahoo Answers are fun for me, just like going down to Dairy Queen and getting an ice cream cone. It閳ユ獨 a treat for me, but all that fun goes down the drain when I have to deal with violation notices and administrative notices. Then there is no fun in Yahoo answers for me at all.



I am a customer and although I may not be always right, I demand respect閳?these violation notices make my blood pressure go up, I get headaches, and I wait for the axe to drop. I write to yahoo, and all I get is a form letter. This is over a free service?



How many of you believe this:



Are Q%26amp;As deleted automatically when they are reported for abuse?



No, they're not automatically deleted. Each abuse report is reviewed by a customer care agent to determine the appropriate action. It isn't possible to "attack" someone by repeatedly reporting them for abuse because deletions are not automatic. Yahoo! Answers adheres to the Yahoo! Privacy Policy.



I saw a lady saw she was going to report me, and in 2 minutes, I got a letter from Yahoo.



I'm really ticked off with all of these righteous people who thing they should turn you in, because they don't agree with you.



What is a tattletale?



Remember the whiny, insecure kid in nursery school, the one who always thought everyone was out to get him, and was always running to the teacher with complaints? Chances are he grew up to be a yahoo answers snitch!!!



Attention or Detention?



From Sue



When a Child Tattles....



Behavior Description



This child likes to 'tell on' everyone. He/she's a chronic tattletale and will be caught up in some of the following phrases: 'Erin won't let me play.............Jason is copying my work..................Kim budded in front of me in line.........Ben took Evan's snack............



Every classroom seems to have tattletales but some children become chronic and telling on others is a frequent occurrence. This child often uses tattling as a form of threatening other children. For instance: 'I'll tell on you if you don't let me play with you.'



Why?



The child who tattletales is usually seeking attention, this child needs to know the difference between appropriate 'telling on somebody' and when it isn't appropriate to tell. Tattletales do so as it gives them a sense of power.



Try and determine what the child's needs are that makes him/her want to seek attention in this fashion. Usually a tattletale has a self-esteem issue, when they tattle, somebody listens and they are gaining the attention they seek which often makes them feel important.



Interventions



Dealing with a tattletale can be tricky. Usually the tattle tale is aware of the routines and rules to be followed and tells on a child that isn't following them. This gives them the opportunity to 'look good' so to speak. It is important to listen to the tattletale, but equally so, the child needs to try and solve the problem on their own. Prompt the child as to how they could resolve the issue.



A one to one with the tattletale is also a helpful method. Remember - acknowledge that the child knows the rules/procedures but that there's a better method of dealing than becoming a tattletale. Always remind the child that there is a place for tattling and it is when a child is in danger or in trouble, for older children it could mean being involved in something illegal.



If the child is a tattle tale because it give him/her a sense of power, you could give him leadership opportunities to help deal with the tattling, focus on the child's strengths and downplay the weaknesses.



Teach the child through role playing, the value of knowing when to tattle and how to solve their own problems instead of tattling. This will take time and will require you to put some scenarios together for practice.



Children should understand the hurtful consequences of tattling and whenever possible, they should apologize for inappropriate tattling.



Children need to be part of the solution and or consequences. Always ask them how they could have resolved the issue instead of tattling.



Avoid lectures and quick irrational decisions. E.g., if you tattle again, you'll be grounded for a year! or you'll have 6 detentions"



Sometimes a tattletale always seems to 'tell on' the same child. In this case, encourage the child to find something positive to say about the child.



Here is Yahoo's numbers in case you want to complain to them, about all of these violation notices being sent out to us, the unsuspecting user of yahoo answers!!!



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Where閳ユ獨 the outrage? Why are people so hell bent on reporting other people?



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Here is a suggestion for the Yahoo Team about these violation notices that are being sent out. Instead of sending a violation notice every time someone doesn't like your answer, why don't you guys set your computers, so if someone gets 3 violations instead of one, on the same question, then send a notice out. That閳ユ獨 what computers are for. One person complaining, it閳ユ獨 probably a tattletale, 3 means it閳ユ獨 probably a serious issue. Do something about all these violation notices going out. Another suggestion is: don't send a violation notice out from yahoo until a human has actually read it. If you all will do that, then I will tell you what an excellent job you are doing!!!



Does Yahoo Answers make you mad sometimes?

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Pre-employment drug testing?

I was told by my son that he had to undergo drug testing for his job interview. He was required to give his blood, urine, hair, and explose himself for an anal exam. I understand the first three items for drug testing, but I don't understand the anal exam for a drug test. Help! Wha't the reasoning behind an anal exam for a drug test? Aren't the three mentioned items enough? When is enough, ENOUGH? I think this drug testing has gotten out of hand. Is there any valid reason for an anal exam just for a drug test? Why aren't the three other tests enough? I know he doesn't have undergo these tests, but when you need a job as bad as my son needs one, what choice do you have? And, when will "your employer" demands that you undergo an anal exam so you can keep (or get your next job) your job? I mean, "who knows for whom the bells toll". I fear that Americans are losing their human rights just to get a l lousy job!! Isn't this what we are really afraid of after all! This is tyranny!!



Pre-employment drug testing?

story doubtful...



Pre-employment drug testing?

what kind of job was he applying for? for all of my pre-employment drug tests i just had to pee in a cup but that's all for retail......



perhaps they've had issues with people hiding vials of urine or something there



but i think maybe you are exaggerating now that i think about it........



Pre-employment drug testing?

I think he may have been joking in reference to the rectal exam. I've never heard of that one before, except in jest because of the urine, blood and hair tests.



Yes, I agree that drug testing has gotten out of hand. As a conservative Republican, I won't lower myself to allowing one done. If an employer feels that I am under the influence at work, they are free to fire me. Otherwise, leave me alone.



Which is ultimately why I have selected a profession for which I can easily be self-employed.



Pre-employment drug testing?

Unless the job is something like working in a diamond mine and this is a safeguard against smuggling, I can't imagine any reason for a body cavity search! And wtf do these people expect to learn from urine that they aren't already learning from hair and blood? This is crazy.



Pre-employment drug testing?

I'd pretty much say this story is bogus...you are NEVER required to submit blood, urine and hair...and of course the other "test" is this weirdo's fantasy....



Pre-employment drug testing?

i think your son is pulling you leg on this one. In fact a drug test is just peeing in a cup. No company is going to take the responsibility of doing a blood test.



Pre-employment drug testing?

wishful thinking me thinks,anul probes,what next ,tests to see if your an alien from another galaxy?,too many drugs,please sort out reality from sicko fantasy



Pre-employment drug testing?

While I doubt that the Anal Exam had anything to do with the results of the drug test, it may have been performed as part of a search for a hidden clean specimen. I would say that is going beyond what is reasonable. I know of many companies having people strip down and be watched while they give the specimen. However if they have drawn blood, taken urine, and pulled hair out for testing anyone who is hiding a clean urine specimen is going to fail the test anyway if they are dirty, so why the Anal Exam? Unless it was part of a pre-employment physical I can see no possible use for it at all.



You do not say what kind of job your son was going after, however I must assume that it required a high security clearance for the type of testing you said he was subjected to.



Pre-employment drug testing?

I find this hard to believe. Normally a urine specimen is all that is required for a drug screen.

Please...I Need Help!!!?

Hi everyone! I really need help understanding some things in biology. If you were trying to figure out whether hair color and eye color are linked, what would you do? On average how many genes are linked in the the human genome? Also, how would you make a punnet square for the non linked and linked case of genes? Please help me! Thanxx!



Please...I Need Help!!!?

first of all you need to understand that linked genes means that the genes are the on the same chromosome



as each chromosome carries different amounts of genes, and genes are not the same length and size and such, I think it would be difficult to quantify the average number of genes that are linked in the human genome



if genes are on the same chromosome, when calculating probabilities, it is almost like you only consider it to be one gene, but one that can code for two traits



for example F = more than five fingers, H = mid digit hair



if the genes are not linked they will look like this



(F;H/f;h) although not necessarily in that combination



if the genes are linked they will look like this



(FH/fh) again not necessarily in that combination



I assume that you know during prophase I of meiosis crossing over occurs between homologous chromosomes (recall that homologous chromosomes means the two chromosomes that have the same genes, just different alleles)



so if genes are on the same chromosome, they will cross over and new combinations will be formed



for example we have two (FH/fh) people mating



..........FH.......fh



FH|FH/FH..FH/fh



..fh|FH/fh....fh/fh



so the possible phenotypes of the children will be: more than five fingers with hair or five fingers with no hair in a 3:1 ratio



however when crossing over occurs, new combinations are formed that means the genes won't be (FH/fh) for sure they could be (Fh/fH) or (fH/Fh)



this means that new phenotypes are possible in the children, instead of there only being two possible phenotypes: more than five fingers with hair or five fingers with no hair, there could be children with more than five fingers with no hair or five fingers with hair



these new combinations are called recombinants, and when genes are linked the phenotypes are close to a 3:1 ratio, but the other phenotypes are present in small amounts



if these genes were not linked this would happen



.............F;H.........F;h.............



F;H|.F;F/H;H...F/F;H/h...F;f/H;H...F;f...



F;h|.F;F/H;h....F/F;h/h....F;f/H;h.......



.f;H|.F;f/H;H....F/f;H/h.....f;f/H;H.....



..f;h|.F;f/H;h.....F/f;h/h.....f;f/H;h...



as you can see the phenotypes would be: more than five fingers and mid digit hair; more than five fingers and no hair; five fingers and mid digit hair; five fingers and no hair in a 9:3:3:1 ratio



so if you recorded the children of humans with known phenotype for their hair and eye color and the ratios in phenotype you observed were 3:1 with recombinants then the genes are linked, if the ratios were closer to a 9:3:3:1 ratio then the genes are not linked



you calculate this 'goodness of fit' with the chi squared test



Please...I Need Help!!!?

get to work! http://www.google.com/search?hl=en%26amp;q=hai...

How do you feel about people who find you attractive when your dolled up, but not when you are?

there personalities change too. like when your hair or makeup or skin for that matter isn't messy or breaking out, etc. then your cute, fly, etc. stared at, yada yada, loved by your friends, family, etc. drooled over. once you have an acne break out, dark circles under your eyes, scars, etc. then its like they treat you differently, more distant, more cold, rude comments, more negative stares, yada yada, from stranger to friends to family. so...how do you feel about people who do this, its very superficial and its a horrible reflection on how they base a human's beings worth?



How do you feel about people who find you attractive when your dolled up, but not when you are?

If a male doesn't find me attractive without all the phony then he doesn't know me and that isn't worth my time. A man who can appreciate my all dolled up and at my worst is one worth keeping which is why I've been with the same guy for over 8 years. He's seen me at my absolute best and my worst and he loves ME for me. My family loves me for me and so do my friends. Anyone who can only appreciate the pseudo-me that is represented when I am wearing make-up, a weave, and some carefully planned ensemble is fake and I don't allow fake people into my world.



How do you feel about people who find you attractive when your dolled up, but not when you are?

i agree completely. I started to notice this also in my teenage years and it was upsetting. i am the same way with everyone no matter how they look because we are all human. but there is nothing more admirable in a person than a sincere good heart. i could care less about looks and unfortunatly we have to live in a world where most people do care but there are people out there that u can relate to and im seeing more and more people speak out on this. dont worry about that just be happy and live your life the way you want too.



god bless%26lt;3

The Stupidity of mankind?

In case you needed further proof that the human race is doomed through stupidity, here are some actual label instructions on consumer goods.



On a Sear's hairdryer:



....Do not use while sleeping.



(darn, and that's the only time I have to work on my hair.)



On a bag of Fritos:



....You could be a winner! No purchase necessary. Details inside.



(the shoplifter special?)



On a bar of Dial soap:



"Directions: Use like regular soap."



(and that would be how???....)



On some Swanson frozen dinners:



"Serving suggestion: Defrost."



(but, it's "just" a suggestion.)



Tesco's Tiramisu dessert (printed on bottom):



"Do not turn upside down."



(well...duh, a bit late, huh?)



On Marks %26amp; Spencer Bread Pudding:



"Product will be hot after heating."



(...and you thought????...)



On packaging for a Rowenta iron:



"Do not iron clothes on body."



(but wouldn't this save me more time?)



On Boot's Children Cough Medicine:



"Do not drive a car or operate machinery after taking this medication."



(We could do a lot to reduce the rate of construction accidents if we could just get those 5-year-olds with head-colds off those forklifts.)



On Nytol Sleep Aid:



"Warning: May cause drowsiness."



(and...I'm taking this because???....)



On most brands of Christmas lights:



"For indoor or outdoor use only."



(as opposed to...what?)



On a Japanese food processor:



"Not to be used for the other use."



(Now, somebody out there, help me on this. I'm a bit curious.)



On Sainsbury's peanuts:



"Warning: contains nuts."



(talk about a news flash)



On an American Airlines packet of nuts:



"Instructions: open packet, eat nuts."



(Step 3: maybe, uh...fly Delta?)



On a child's superman costume:



"Wearing of this garment does not enable you to fly."



(I don't blame the company. I blame the parents for this one.)



On a Swedish chainsaw:



"Do not attempt to stop chain with your hands or genitals."



(Oh my God...was there a lot of this happening somewhere?)



The Stupidity of mankind?

Those were Super! Another Gold Star for ya! Loved the little, one-liners you threw in there! lol.



The Stupidity of mankind?

Brilliant



The Stupidity of mankind?

Which can be found at the ignorant site bored.com i mention that site once a year and a half ago and all hell breaks lose



The Stupidity of mankind?

Oh dear! funny though!!



The Stupidity of mankind?

Do you ever have time,to actually BUY anything?



The Stupidity of mankind?

fantastic lol.



The Stupidity of mankind?

good one thanks



The Stupidity of mankind?

ha ha ha funny



thanks for a laugh



The Stupidity of mankind?

Lol Nice ones!



The Stupidity of mankind?

ha ha ha ha!!! i love stupid things like this!!!



The Stupidity of mankind?

hahahaha

 
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