Did i deserve to be kicked out of bed?

so i am in the middle of an intense gaming session with some of my friends online in south korea when hear the jingle-jingle of my girlfriend's keys in the door (she made me make her a key). she strolls in with a bunch of her feminine products and applicators and dryers and makeups and lotions jammed into her huge bag. she says, "i am sleeping here tonight" and i say "but we never do that" and she says "well we are doing it tonight, i'm ready for bed" and i say, "i'm going to game" she says, "fine" and goes to bed. after we vanquish the level 10 elf mage, i crawl in bed and struggle to obtain sleep but i cannot when there is another human being in my bed. finally i start counting nachos in my head and i fall asleep. then i wake up and look over at my girlfriend and i am startled! there are bags under her eyes, her hair is messed up, and her mouth looks like it was dusted with white makeup! i'm confused! so i say, "my god!" and she says "what?!"

Did i deserve to be kicked out of bed?

you vanquished a level 10 elf mage!!!!!!!!

damn.

Did i deserve to be kicked out of bed?

I think she has said the right things welcome to the world of reality, if you want a trophey girlf friend that looks good all the time, by a blowup doll!

Did i deserve to be kicked out of bed?

looks like she fell off the pedestal, even most gorgeous girl looks like hell in the morning, what did you look like? maybe you had boogers but she didn't tell you cause she loves you

Did i deserve to be kicked out of bed?

its your bed, its your place, take your key back until she learns boundaries, you were honest and she overreacted

Did i deserve to be kicked out of bed?

WOW.

Um. I do not know what to say to that.

I dont know that I would kick u out of bed, but I know I would end up breaking up with u over it because I would see how ....hmm what the word, what a Pig u r? Nono thats not it... oh well.

Too bad for you.

Try not being so focused on the phsical dude. I am sure there is more to your gf than that.

Did i deserve to be kicked out of bed?

dude ur g/f stayed over and u would rather play computer games!!! NERD ALERT!!! dude when they come over they wanr=t intimacy. jesus u deserve to be kicked out of bed and of the computer server

Did i deserve to be kicked out of bed?

Not that you really deserved to be kicked out of your own bed by a person that you did not invite to spend the night; but, there are more tactful ways of approaching the "you look awful" topic. No one is perfect in this one.

Did i deserve to be kicked out of bed?

She invaded your space so she should be able to deal with whatever you have to dish out. I hope this will teach you to not give a key to your home to anyone. It's not a good idea.

P.S. I would probably start looking for a new girlfriend. This one sounds kind of self centered and pushy.

Did i deserve to be kicked out of bed?

hmmmm...sounds like she wanted to have sex, and instead u play video games and call her ugly in the morning...i say YEAH u deserved it.

Did i deserve to be kicked out of bed?

yes, she had ever right to kick you out, and what she called you was just truthful, just as you were being with her. i guess you can say the truth hurts, deal with it.

Did i deserve to be kicked out of bed?

LOL...and you say this is YOUR apartment and YOUR bed.

Get some backbone.

Maybe you were a bit insenstive, but she had no business coming into your place like a whirlwind, settling herself in

and booting you out.

I think some groundrules need to be set here and you have to make them.

If this is what you want for the rest of your life....welcome to your nightmare

Did i deserve to be kicked out of bed?

r u twelve??

hehe im living in korea right now, i do for a fact now that korean girl over use their make up to look "slightly" better!!hehe

they cant live without their foundation!!

and yeah, she has the right !!

dude!! u insulted her!!!

y would u give her a key if she never sleeps over??weird!!oh but then , shes korean...yeah they freak out and its their way to check on the guy if hes doing anything bad, if ya see what i mean!!

good luck

Did i deserve to be kicked out of bed?

Well, I think you could have approached her looks a bit differently, especially first thing in the morning. It's kind of slapping someones face and saying "nice to see you too".

If you didn't like her morning look, you should have kept it to yourself. You will know how she looks in the morning now and if you did not like how she looks, you don't love her anyway.

Did i deserve to be kicked out of bed?

Look, hun, there is more to a relationship than a physicial appearance. And if she felt confident enough to show you her bad side, she must really care about you and trust you. Now i dont know you like at all, but it sounds to me like you care about her, too. Correct me if im wrong, but i just think this question was a joke. Did you deserve to be kicked out of bed? Well, yes. You practically had a heart attack once you saw what she looks like every morning and shouted "MY GOD!"

Babe, if it bugs you that much, just call it off. If she asks why, just say you're not sure you're ready for this type of commitment. Or you could always run her off saying you're gay (but then she might try to fix you up with her gay friends...). Anyways, i just think you should let her know you are used to your own space, and having her randomly just sleepover isn't too fun for you.

This reminds me of an old saying...

"Every girl wants to run to her boyfriend with her hair oily, makeup running down her face, and trainers, but still hear him say- "You're beautiful", and MEAN it."

LOL! Hope i helped ;)

xxx

Did i deserve to be kicked out of bed?

I would definitely take the key back....or have the locks changed. She bullied her way into your bed (unwelcomed) and should be behaving like a guest.

Granted, most women don't look as beautiful first thing in the morning as they do on a date, and you were less than cavalier in your remarks.....but still she's in the wrong, here. She shouldn't stay over unless you ask her to, or unless you both agree that it's a good idea.

As for a lawsuit, I seriously doubt you'd get an attorney to take your case. But it sounds like you should be taking back your own apartment.

Did i deserve to be kicked out of bed?

I think that both of you overreacted, she should have asked you if she could stay before barging in though. Level 10 Elf Mage, if that is good, Con grads. But girlfriend should come first if you ever plan marriage,with someone. The only women that look good in the morning are the ones that don't wear much make-up, to begin with, and still look good.

Did i deserve to be kicked out of bed?

YOU BOTH NEED TO WORK ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP...YOU BOTH NEED COMMUNICATION SKILLS...THAT WAS A RUDE THING TO SAY BUT SHE SOUNDS LIEK SHE DESERVED IT...